Don't Dare Talk

I must throw a quick note out there. My wife and I have 7 children and a 15 passenger van. That means we travel, alot; to the Store, Market, Library, pharmacy ect. Many times on these trips I am pressured to talk to people or respond with a (Hi how are ya)


So I just wanted to share that when your scared to go out into public and you feel pressured to talk back, I keep my words to one syllables. In other words try to keep the conversation from going anywhere, I am a professional at being a chameleon. What I am saying is; Pray under your breath and keep your words to a minimum so you don't have to talk. Sometimes not making face to face contact will help.

Teach yourself to pray under your breath in public, then you may be encouraged enough to speak out loud. Then on the other hand there are those Bipolar that just blurt out anything and you can't keep them from talking.

My point however is; pray under your breath and see going out in public as a ministry. Look at people thru the eyes of Jesus. And pray for the people in the same grocery Isle as you. Or pray for the person in the wheel chair. I know this takes courage but if you really feel strongly about it go for it.... Maybe I'm just preaching to myself, I don't know.



First I must say I am not a Dr. or a Pshyc. But I have been counseling people with Bipolar Disorder since 1986.
If I don't have the answer we can grow through it together.


God Bless... and I really mean it.
Dave Hallahan
Dave@christian-internet.com

12 comments:

soldier4yhwh said...

Hey guys and gals, I am a newer member here ( within the last 3 or 4 weeks) but have noticed no real fellowship going on here... I've attempted to reply to a recent comment and sent an email to Dave but so far this blog is dead. I very much would like to have fellowship with other bipolar Christians to both be helped and to help however God leads us. Anyone else? My email is Soldier4yhwh@gmail.com and I also check this blog almost everyday. If you would like talk please feel free to reply. God bless!

Cindy Butler - The Hope of a Bipolar Christian said...

Hi, I just came across Dave's blog today and found your message. I would like to share with you, and learn from you, as we navigate who we are in the bp 'arena.' My blog is Thehopeofabipolarchristian.blogspot.com, and my email is hoabc2014@gmail.com.
Hope to hear from you, thanks!
Cindy

newlywedbipolarbears said...

Hello! My wife and I are both struggling to battle our bipolar disorders through the spiritual guidance of our faith. We are desperately trying to return home to our congregation and family after losing our jobs due to each of our hospitalizations in the last six months. We are asking all compassionate souls to check out our page on giveforward.com http://gfwd.at/1A5ZBdZ

Your thoughts and prayers are so very appreciated and keep us going.

newlywedbipolarbears said...

please help spread the word in any way you can!

Anonymous said...

I am in hiding at this moment. I have the Holy Spirit on my side. Although difficult, I am making small steps at getting better at handling this. Thank you for your prayers, and praise God for His grace.

Anonymous said...

I have cheated on my wife due to my bipolar. Last time was 3 years ago. She tells me she has forgiven me. But she has told me that we will no longer be intimate, what are we to do???????

Anonymous said...

Can bob Larson help us? How do I do normal things with a calm mind?

Unknown said...

I was diagnosed at age 14. I am now 43. I want to learn how to be a good christian woman with BPD. I feel like its such a struggle to live a good christian life as it is. BPD makes it all the more difficult. I have days when I can't stand people period. That's not who I am. Why does this disease make being a gracious caring loving friendly person? God please help me!

soldier4yhwh said...

Hey Kimberlee, my name is Jeremy. I know what it's like to be manic or depressed and the outward hostility it can bring. Not to mention the self loathing. Know that God understand our illness. He loves you and has forgiven you. How can I help you to forgive yourself? The pain you feel is a vicious cycle. Let's break it! I would very much like to help but without knowing more specifics about how you struggle and with whom its hard to know where to begin though. Feel free to email me and I'll get back to you as soon as I can.

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